Steph Guthrie, writer for the Canadian edition of Huffington Post and member of Canadian-based band Patti Cake, recently compiled a list of infuriating things people say to female musicians.

Guthrie’s list is based on personal experience as well as responses she gathered from her Twitter followers.

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Some of the things on her list include:

  • “I didn’t know girls liked Iron Maiden.”
  • “You must’ve dated at least half your band.”
  • “Want a Betty Boop strap to go with that new guitar?”

Click here to read the full list and let us know what type of dismissive comments you’ve heard.